Ever wondered what women are thinking?
It can be confusing and overwhelming trying to figure this out.
When it comes to a man’s image there’s so many different ways you can approach it.
One way of dressing will appeal to a certain group of girls while completely turning off another.
How’s a guy supposed to know what works?!
Over the years I’ve been fortunate to meet plenty of beautiful girls while working as a server and a bartender.
During that time I’ve also been lucky enough to pick their brains about what works and what doesn’t when it comes to dating.
More recently I met my beautiful friend Ginger for coffee who offered her advice to guys about what she considers good style and what are some clear deal-breakers.
It all breaks down into 3 categories which have been detailed below.
So if you’d like to know what a beautiful girl looks for when it comes to style, check out this list!
Shows his personality through his style
This one’s going to vary for every single guy.
Ginger makes a great point about how attractive it is for men to embrace their lifestyle.
This means that your image should be a reflection of your daily routine and how you’d like to be perceived.
A great example would be to take the clean-cut approach if you’re working in a corporate environment. Your go-to items would be button-up shirts, dark jeans, blazers, etc.
Not afraid to take risks and not worried about what other’s think
Not worrying about standing out from the crowd is the sign of a true leader — a quality that women find attractive in men.
This is a sign that you’re confident enough to have your own individual take on style rather than following trends or adopting the herd mentality.
By taking this risk you communicate that you’re the type of man who’s a go-getter that’s able to think for himself and is confident in his decision making ability.
What Are Some Deal-breakers?
Your long hours in the gym may finally be paying off but there’s no need to show it off.
Wearing clothes that are too tight will give people the impression that you’re trying too hard.
On the flip-side, if you’re wearing clothes that are too baggy there’s the risk that you may look sloppy and don’t care.
Other deal-breakers include not ironing your clothes or wearing clean ones. Ginger said, “If they don’t care too much about their appearance then they maybe don’t care too much about other things too.”
In this case “other things” refers to a lack of ambition, grooming in general, or that a guy who presents himself like this likely isn’t in the best headspace and would be best to avoid dating him.
It seems to be a common theme.
Dressing in a way that accurately reflects your personality and not trying too hard to look great is advice I’ve come across in my research outside of this interview.
Don’t be afraid to standout. This was the #1 setback that guys asked about during my last online class.
At the end of the day it boils down to your mindset. As long as your intentions are good there’s no need to worry about what other people are thinking.
Hopefully you enjoyed reading this post as much as I enjoyed writing it for you.
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Here’s Ginger’s Interview: