Why The Secret To Your Dating Success May Not Be What You Think It Is
It's time to step it up. A fat bank account, flashy cars, or constantly feeding her compliments will only get you so far.
Those things may work for certain women, but they won't likely be the ones you want to commit to long-term or have your parents meet.
What I've learned over the last couple of years is that it DOESN'T MATTER what material possessions you own how you look (to a certain degree).
Dating success relies on a few key factors.
The more I've focused on developing those, the better my dating life has become.
It's made me a more well-rounded person and I've even gained a better understanding of myself.
By no means am I an expert when it comes to improving your dating life.
To be honest, I'm still figuring things out. But I feel like what I have learned is worth sharing.
So here goes nothing!
A Sense Of Purpose:
Why do you think women are attracted to the starving artists?
They have drive and are striving for something greater than just paying the bills.
The confidence that comes with having a clearly defined vision immediately makes a man attractive.
Knowing that your potential is more than what's seen in your current situation is what makes a man with a sense of purpose more appealing.
An Attractive Lifestyle:
Rather than just clocking in and clocking out.
A man who leads an interesting life not only makes women curious but also is creates a life that's worth inviting her into.
It's much easier to get a date by inviting her to join you on an adventure rather than having to chase her around and making plans around her schedule.
You basically want to strive to be like the Dos Equis "The Most Interesting Man In The World." Just remember that there's no need to be that extreme.
Eventually she'll meet your friends once you start seeing each other on a regular basis.
You better hope that they all have good things to say about you.
This is 3rd party evidence that you are a cool guy who's able to maintain long-term, healthy relationships.
When she can see you through the eyes of your friends, who are able to see qualities about yourself that you may not see, it reveals a lot about your personality and character.
Interesting Things To Say:
Maybe you're well travelled, cultured, or have hobbies & interests.
Things to talk about aside from your work.
This shows that you're a well-rounded man who's guaranteed to have good stories to tell.
The best part is that eliminates the "interview" style dates. You know the kind where you're always asking questions?
Instead you can talk about the interesting places you've seen and the adventures you've been on.
All great conversation starters that will reveal your personality without being too obvious.
You're Well Put-Together:
This is especially important during the first few dates.
It shows that you care enough to put in the effort, appreciate attention to detail, and (when done properly) that you have great taste.
Creating your own sense of style also communicates that you have a strong understanding of yourself.
Personal style is a reflection of how you see yourself. A man who's confident and values his own opinion won't hold back in the way he dresses.
As you can see, your dating success doesn't rely on the size of your bank account or on how many shots you paid for that night.
Your best bet is to create a lifestyle for yourself that's worth inviting her into. This means doing things that interest you and meeting women along the way.
This also leads to meeting women who share similar interests. When that's the case, you're more likely to get along and have similar outlooks on life.
I hope you enjoyed reading this post as much as I’ve enjoyed writing it.
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